My Journey to Feeling at Home

Imagine moving thousands of miles from home to a city you’ve only seen in photos. That’s exactly what I did when I joined University of Galway, and it’s been a whirlwind of emotions ever since. I’m Alisha, an MSc student in Business Analytics, and getting here has been a journey - one that’s been exciting, challenging, and honestly, a bit overwhelming at times. Moving abroad from India, packing my life into just 50 kilograms of luggage, and diving into a whole new lifestyle has been a rollercoaster of emotions. But through it all, I’m discovering so much about myself, and it’s made every up and down worthwhile.

Deciding where to study was no easy task. I spent ages researching universities, trying to find the perfect fit. And then, while scrolling through countless photos, I stumbled across an image of the University’s Quadrangle with its beautiful ivy-covered walls. Something just clicked, and I remember thinking, “This is it. This is where I want to be”. When I finally saw it in person, it felt surreal – just as beautiful as in the photos, maybe even more. Standing there, I knew I’d made the right choice. Galway felt like that missing puzzle piece I’d been searching for.

My first day in Galway is still so fresh in my mind. I didn’t know a soul – not even my flat mates. But as soon as I arrived, they welcomed me with a warm, home-cooked meal. Not just dinner, though – this lovely couple took me out grocery shopping to Aldi. Afterward, they drove me around Eyre Square and the Salthill promenade. We walked for a few minutes along the promenade, and this is where I clicked my very first picture in Galway. That simple, thoughtful gesture melted away my nerves. In that moment, it felt like I’d found a tiny piece of home in this brand-new place. I’m incredibly grateful for the people and moments that have made Galway feel like home.

On top of the emotional transition, there’s the weather adjustment. Coming from Pune, where the yearly rainfall is about 700 millimetres, to a place where it rains almost constantly was quite a shock! In Galway, you learn to expect rain nearly every day, with the sun occasionally making a brief appearance. And the cold winds? Let’s just say, they’re a whole new experience. But even with the gloomy skies, Galway has its charm – it’s a place where the warmth of the people more than makes up for the chilly weather.

Studying abroad isn’t always the adventure it’s made out to be. There are hard days, too. I’d be lying if I said I didn’t feel lonely sometimes, missing my family and friends. Adjusting to the Irish education system was also a big change – so much independent learning and deadlines to juggle. And as someone who tends to overthink, it’s been tough to find a way to hit pause and check in with myself. But in those challenging moments, I’ve learned so much about resilience. The little comforts I once took for granted back home now mean so much more. I’ve learned to cook, clean, motivate myself, and somehow keep it all together. I’ve even found a wonderful group of friends who make the hard days easier and keep me sane.

It’s funny how much you think you know about yourself until you’re in a new place with new people. I’ve discovered strengths I didn’t realize I had and noticed how my comfort zone keeps stretching. Things that once felt strange or difficult have slowly become part of my routine, and I’m realizing just how adaptable we all are. One thing I’ve learned for sure: it’s so important to talk about how you’re feeling. Opening up to friends and classmates has been incredibly freeing, and it turns out, a lot of us are going through the same things. It’s easy to feel like everyone else has it all figured out, especially when social media often shows only the best moments. But it’s okay to not be okay and sharing that vulnerability has brought me closer to the friends I’ve made here.

As I settle into life at the University of Galway, I’m constantly reminded of why I chose this place. Galway isn’t just a beautiful city; it has this vibrant, creative energy that makes you feel welcome right away. The university’s strong academic reputation was a huge draw, but what stands out even more is how supportive and warm the community is. And the city itself? Lively yet laid-back, with stunning views and a friendly vibe that just makes you feel at home. Whether I’m exploring cosy cafés, walking along the river, or studying in a quiet nook on campus, Galway has a way of making me feel like I truly belong.

Looking back on this journey, I’m so grateful for all of it – the fun times, the tough times, and everything in between. Moving to Galway has been one of the most transformative experiences of my life, and each step has brought me closer to a deeper understanding of myself. For anyone out there who’s thinking about studying abroad, I’ll say this: it’s not always easy, but it’s worth every moment. You might just find, as I did, that you’re stronger, braver, and more resilient than you ever thought possible.

Thank you for reading my story. I hope it gives you a glimpse into life as an international student at the University of Galway. If you’re considering taking the plunge, remember – you’re capable of so much more than you think.

Words and images thanks to Global Student Ambassador Alisha Amit Bhende, MSc Business Analytics